We often find it very hard changing habits. After an initial period of success driven by high motivation in the beginning we then fall back into the old traps. A major source for failure is to keep the old temptations around to be used in a moment of weakness. The first step in changing a habit therefore has to be the removal of temptations. It is also important to understand that removal does not mean to hide things but to make it close to impossible to get them back in a spontaneous moment. Let me share a few examples with you:
1) If you spend too much time watching TV
Unsubscribe your cable subscription as well as the TV magazine. You can even go as far as to sell your TV or bring it to a friend’s house until you feel ready to control your TV consumption.
2) If you spend too much time on computer games
Delete all games on your computer (don’t forget to empty the trash bin), dispose the installation media and if you play on a console - sell the game console and the games.
3) If you want to stop smoking
Dispose all cigarettes you have as well as all related equipment such as ashtrays, lighters, etc.
4) Spend less money
Get rid of your credit card for a while. If you don’t want to return it to your bank you can deposit it at a family members’ home. Another possibility is to only withdraw a certain amount of cash per week and to also deposit your bank cards at someone else’s place.
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I think that this list can become endless. But I would be interested in knowing how you got rid of temptations when you where trying to change a habit. Making this list longer might help many other readers to overcome their bad habits.
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